Thursday, January 22, 2009

I dont want to die, help please? -

about 1 year ago,in january 2008, i got diagnosed with hypertension. i am supposed to take medication to keep myself healthy, but my mom doesn t give them to me.she would go get the refills on time, but she never actually gives them to me, she throws them away or flushes them down the toilet. now, im scared because i read all kinds of things hypertension can do,like heart attacks, diabetes,and even death and it makes me cry just thinking about it. i just want to get better,but i don t have a car to get my medication on my own, and im only 15 so i don t think they would give it to me,and i don t know what to do i just want to get better i don t want to die.how do i get her to give my medication to me,

This amounts to child abuse. Call kids help line, call the police and ask for their assistance or advice, call child protective services, see a councilor at your school.Contact the Dr who prescribed the medication and tell them. What is the name of the drug you are supposed to be taking? Do you know the dose?

Ask your mom why she won t give you the medication. . The next time you go to the doctor make sure you tell them you haven t been taking the medicine because your mom doesn t give them to you. If you have a health problem and you need to take medicine....I think your mom has to give them to you otherwise it would be neglect. Can you talk to any other family members about how your mom won t give you the pills?

Okay, this is really ticking me off that a mother would do this to her child. What is her purpose in this? What you need to do is talk to your school counselor. Your life is more important than your mother saving face. If your school counselor does not listen, then talk to a police officer. She is being ridiculous and she is endangering your life. Also, is there anyway you getting them out of the trash and taking them?

There are many answers on the internet that will only stress you out more. If it is true that she is not giving them to you, you should start by telling a friend and teacher. Then if they can t help you...I would definitely call CPS or the police. Don t be afraid of what might happen if you do call someone or tell on your mom, you should be more afraid of what would or could happen if you don t.

Go to a doctor as soon as possible, do not tell your mom where you are going (could get a friends mom to drive you/bus) and tell the doctor that you havent had the medication because your mom is doing this If they dont believe you or dont do anything then go to another and another until someone will help you All the best!

I would go on webmd.com and check it out yourself, it s a great resource for looking up drugs and treatment options for various ailments, such as hypertension. That way you can be prepared to go to an adult with all of the information ready, so they will be more likely to take you. Good luck to you!

that is so freakin scary, why doesn t she give them too you. I would tell her that you need them and if she doesn t start giving them to you than your gonna call your doctor and pharmist and tell them what shes doing. Do you have someone else to pick them up, your dad?, maybe a aunt or ancle, good luck. if you were where i lived i would get them for ya... i live in msla mt take care, and dont stop unil you have your meds!

Ok- this is serious! You have to ask her why she isn t giving you your medication. If it gets too far, you might want to say things like quot;DO YOU WANT ME SICK, OR WORSE?quot; It s insane!!! If she doesn t give it to you after you confront her, look into the phone book and call your pharmacy. Tell them the problem! Or maybe tell you dad, or a sibling. Anyone can help! :)

this is serious, why would your mom go and pay for something and just flush it down? it sounds strange, maby she is taking the pills and has a drug problem. I suggest that you should talk to your school councellor about it. she may have some ideas for you.

Tell another adult in your life, because this is important. A teacher, guidance counselor, coach, whatever. They are obligated to help you not only by law, but assuming they are decent human beings.

Tell your mom that you don t wanna die and the pills will help you! If she cares she will listen and give you the pills! You could call a local pharmacist and tell them this and they would probably let you pick them up! Im sorry

You need to call your doctor and tell him/her what your mom is doing! I can t believe she would do such a thing! That is horrible abuse. I would actually report her to the police if you can t reason with her. Good luck!

if what you are saying is true, your mother is abusing you and you need to tell someone. Tell a teacher, or a school official or a counsellor, but tell someone.

This is a form a child abuse. Call a child abuse hot line and tell them what is going on, they will contact the authorities in your area and get you help.

Don t ask her for it, while she is somewhere else or not in the room get them and take them! what is she gonna do about it?

Okay. Why is your mum doing that? thats NOT RIGHT!! Have a talk with her..if that doesnt work out then tell the police or the nurses. call them. N relax whoever you are..you will fine trust me.

Go up to your Mama take them meds and if she don t agree then tell some other big wig like your doctor or the police that your mama is being a HO and won t let you take them meds DO IT NOW!!!

If this is for real, and you re not a troll, then call your local protective services agency, police department, etc. This is clearly child abuse.

Report her to the authorities! How cruel of her. But 1st, try to tell someone else in your family or school counselor.

If your mom won t give them to you, you ve gotta report that to some authority best of luck, God be with you.

talk to her about it, then if necessary call the police or hospital

Pick up the phone and call 9-1-1

why wont she freaking give you your medication!?!?! KILLER MOM!

tell someone doctor or police

if you told them what your mom was doing they could help you out and get you the medication,

contact social services.

Talk to your teachers at school.

oh my goodness..... contact your counselor in school or police, doctor, etc. anyone who will listen..... you need help fast...... good luck.............

Calm down It is just high blood pressure There are things you can do without the use of medication to remain healthy. Exercise a couple times a week Eat lots of fruits and veggies. Cheerios are good for heart health You really are too young to worry about this. I am sure you mom had your best interest at heart. Some of those medications are more harmful than good, especially for someone as young as you are.

I think ALL except for one answer is Way jumping the gun here. While I don t know why a mother would take a child to the doctor if she didn t want to give the medicine, for something like hypertension @ 15 I wouldn t go so far as to call it quot;neglectquot; or quot;child abusequot;. How about this, he goes and calls all these authorities, and yay, now he Has no home, social services has jerked him out of his house and institutionalized him in an orphanage until he s 18, great, BUT he ll get his hypertension medication which after a year of not taking it, is obviously having no dramatic or potentially fatal consequences... Think before you Talk people...I would personally think his blood pressure would be MUCH higher after losing his mother and not being allowed to contact her except controlled visits etc etc... Not one of you have ever had any contact with a DHS official apparently... 1.Talk to your mother to find out HER motives for this action. 2.Calm Down Big Time, your blood pressure is probably through the roof for worrying like crazy for such things as this, if I were your mother, I would probably think it was stress induced Not hypertension disorder. 3.How high IS your pressure, do you do multiple daily checksgt;? Or just going by how high it is when you see the doctor which obviously freaks you out? 4.Think before you call DHS, they will Invade your life, and you ll spend Lots of time speaking with therapists, judges and DHS personnel, Woot fun time. And if you think your relationship with your mother is alienated now, wait till DHS comes to the door to quot;take you to safetyquot; and tells her she s an abusive parent...

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